Hey, my name is Emily.

I’m a 30 year-old Data Engineer, and I’ll currently live in Rio de Janeiro, Brasil. I spent the pandemic years as a digital nomad country hopping, but LA is where I call home. I approach life a bit spontaneously, definitely recklessly, and with a lot of impatience (though I’m actively working on this…). So despite my age, I’ve gotten more than my fair share of bruises, sometimes broken bones, and I have been through a lot of… transformative…chaos.

I’ve been sitting on my URL for years, maybe in preparation for making this website. My intention for this space is to honestly use it as a personal soundboard. I’ve always been a writer, though not in the traditional sense. So this website/blog/vlog/etc will be where I practice sharing in an unfiltered sense, free of major edits.

This is not a website where I talk about my travels and tips. I’ve genuinely never used any of those sites with any measurable gains, and I feel like that space has more than enough voices. In all honesty, this is probably going to start of as a space where I communicate my fury. I’ve learned a lot of things while living abroad, most importantly, that I still know very little of the world. However, despite language and cultural differences, people are the same, and there is beautiful connection we all share, should we take the time to seek it out. It’s really lovely learning how to be a global citizen, bumps, bruises, and failures in all.

Word of Caution: If you are grammatical-inclined, my writing will cause you to fall into deep despair. I write the way I speak, which is almost exclusively grammatically incorrect. Learning colloquial Brazilian Portuguese will probably not help that end.

What My Inner Dialogue Is Currently Saying

Side Note: Despite all the photos on this website, I genuinely do hate getting my photo taken… I find it too confronting to see terrible images of myself, and I have deeply struggled with this in the past. But, you gotta grow up at some point. I also know our opinions of our appearance are about as reliable as the weather app in Rio….Often, it says sunny skies and warmth while it’s literally down-pouring rain….. #why?

So, I’ve decided to pay money for photos while traveling for my 60 year old self*, because I know she’ll appreciate them so much more than I ever will in the moment. And, obviously, the ones that make it to this website are ones I actually like, too. It’s kind of like the perspective of my future self is helping me fall in love with the present, or at the very least, the recent past. Which is still relevant for the current version of me, so everyone wins. Case closed.

*I think about that bitch all the time. This blog, really, is for her and the legacy she will build.